May 10, 2026

I began this morning by offering you all the warmest greetings from our brothers and sisters at Trinity on the Hill Episcopal Church in Los Alamos, New Mexico. My friend, Mother Mary Ann Hill, is the rector there, and I had the funniest thing happen on my Sunday visit two weeks ago.

I’m going to be honest with you all. To this day, I go to diocesan gatherings here in the Diocese of Washington—even gatherings with other clergy who you would think know something about the Diocese of Washington—and I introduce myself, and they say, “Now, where is Damascus again?” They give me a blank stare when I try to describe so-called upper Montgomery County.

But there, in the canyon lands of northern New Mexico, in little Los Alamos, population 13,000, I walked into coffee hour to a chorus of “Damascus! Of course—we love Jimmy Cone!”

Here’s the thing: Los Alamos, being Los Alamos, has a number of folks who have worked at DOE in Germantown, or NIST in Gaithersburg, or the Nuclear Regulatory Agency in Rockville. It’s a little Montgomery County enclave at 7,300 feet above sea level in the desert southwest. It’s a place where we, who sometimes may feel unseen, are very much seen.

And I think that’s a fitting connection to our lessons today.

In both Acts and the Gospel of John, we encounter the God of the unknown and the God of the unseen. This is explicitly said in Paul’s sermon to the Athenians: “What therefore you worship as unknown, this I proclaim to you.” In the Gospel, Jesus more indirectly alludes to this truth in his farewell discourse: “In a little while the world will no longer see me, but you will see me.”

God is the God of the unknown and the unseen.

If there is one truth I want you to remember today, it is this—because it operates on so many levels in our lives.

I mentioned already our status as Saint Anne’s in Damascus—on the very periphery of the Diocese of Washington, often feeling removed from everything else going on. But as Christians, especially those committed to regular Sunday worship, there is also a sense of social and political misalignment. There is awkwardness in acknowledging our faith when it is often co-opted or corrupted. There is awkwardness in setting aside time for worship in a culture that does not prioritize it.

It can feel like we are not aligned with what is happening around us when we proclaim a gospel of truth, justice, compassion, and love.

There is a real sense that God is the God of our unseen-ness.

This is especially meaningful today, as we observe Mother’s Day.

Anna Jarvis, an early 20th-century suffragette, worked to establish Mother’s Day in honor of her mother and the role of women in society. Yet later, she became deeply dissatisfied with how the day was commercialized—turned into something about buying and selling rather than honoring.

In the 1980s, sociologist Arlene Kaplan Daniels named what she called “invisible labor”—the essential, often unnoticed work that keeps society functioning. This labor is frequently done by women and is underappreciated and unseen.

This is a moment to recognize the seen-ness of the unseen—to understand that God is present in that work, that God is especially the God of the unseen, the underappreciated, and the invisible.

In New Mexico, there is a deep cultural devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary. You see memorials and depictions of her everywhere—a commitment to remembering and honoring her.

Mary represents the fullness of motherhood, but also something broader: the work of mothering as compassion, support, and love. This is not limited to biological mothers, but includes all who take on that role in the world.

Today is a day to acknowledge that God is especially present with those who go unrecognized.

Mary proclaims this in the Magnificat: God lifts up the lowly, fills the hungry with good things, and brings down the powerful.

But this message is not just about recognizing that God is with the unseen. It is also about our responsibility.

Too often, the Church has treated invisibility as a virtue—that people should quietly do important work without recognition. But that is not the full message of the Gospel.

We are called to name what is unseen. To acknowledge the invisible labor that holds the world together. To proclaim the presence of God in those places.

We often sense that this work exists—we know, at some level, that things are held together by unseen efforts—but we do not name it.

We are called to name it.

We see this also in broader society. There is a growing focus on health, fitness, and self-improvement—CrossFit, gym culture, wellness movements. Even in psychotherapy, there is an emphasis on self-actualization and personal fulfillment.

None of these things are inherently bad. They contain glimpses of truth and of God’s presence. But they are not the fullness of God.

We are invited to help people see beyond these fragments—to recognize the deeper reality of God’s presence and fullness.

We are seen by God at all times and in all places. God is at work everywhere. But often, that presence is not fully understood. Sometimes it is even distorted or overshadowed by harmful expectations, including within the Church itself.

So today, I invite you into two reflections.

First: in those places where you feel invisible—especially for those who are mothers or engaged in the work of caregiving—know that God sees you. God recognizes your dedication, your sacrifice, and your worth.

Second: we, as Christians, have a responsibility to proclaim that seen-ness. Like Paul, we are called to name the unknown God—to point out God’s presence where it is overlooked.

We are called to help others recognize what they already sense but may not fully understand.

I saw this powerfully in New Mexico, particularly in time spent reconnecting with communities on Navajo Nation.

Navajo Nation is roughly the size of the state of Virginia, and there are only 13 grocery stores across the entire nation. Food insecurity is a major issue. Employment opportunities are limited. The challenges are profound.

And yet, in the midst of that, there is a deep and powerful proclamation of God’s presence—of hope, of transformation, of new life.

Julie and I spent time with my classmate Cornelia Eaton, who serves in leadership in the diocese there. Despite significant challenges in her life, her optimism and her witness to God’s goodness were deeply moving.

Her ability to proclaim the God of new life in the midst of struggle was transformative to witness.

I pray that we carry that strength with us—that we recognize that we are seen, and that in being seen, we are called to proclaim that truth.

To help the world understand more fully who God is, and how God is at work all around us.

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

May 3, 2026 Mother Forfa

Once again, thank you all for having me today, and I hope your rector is having a marvelous birthday and a marvelous run. He told me that the place where he is running in New Mexico holds a very special place in his heart, so please keep him in your prayers today.

As happy as I am to be with you, I did groan a little when I read the readings for today. Historically, the passage from John is usually read at funerals, and I thought, “Oh, is this an omen? I hope not.” I also didn’t want to touch the stoning of Stephen—that wouldn’t be the best choice when standing in for someone else—so the gospel it is.

As I was preparing, I began to wonder why this passage isn’t called “Doubting Thomas 2.” Thomas seems to constantly question—either Jesus directly or others about Jesus. He struggles to believe without concrete proof or a long explanation. One commentary I read described Thomas as the “Eeyore” of the Bible. I like that image. From now on, I’ll always picture him as the pessimistic, droopy‑eared disciple.

But without Thomas, would Jesus’ words have the same power for us? Thomas wanted something tangible, just as he once wanted to touch Jesus’ hands and side. Without his questions, our own faith might not be as strong. I’ve come to think of Thomas not as the doubter but as the disciple who asks the hard questions we all need answered to strengthen our faith.

Today, Thomas asks Jesus, “How can we know the way?” Jesus doesn’t scold him but patiently provides an answer that is foundational to Christian faith: “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”

Where have we heard that “I am” language before? Moses and the burning bush. And now we hear Jesus echo it in the New Testament. We don’t know how Thomas reacted, but Philip wanted more—he wanted to be shown. You can almost hear Jesus’ exasperation: “Have I been with you all this time, Philip, and you still do not know me?” I can imagine Him saying, “Really, Philip? All this time and you’re still asking these questions?”

Although it’s not written in the passage, I imagine Jesus continuing, “Let me repeat it: I am in the Father, and the Father is in me. If you have seen me, you have seen the Father, the Creator, the source of all things. Believe me and believe in me.”

I often wonder if Philip was satisfied with that answer. So many powerful yet veiled statements—it makes me pause and ask, Which disciple would I be? I think I’d probably just stand there with my mouth open.

Think about times when you’ve had doubts or wanted to ask more questions. If Jesus were standing right here, what would you ask Him?

John’s Gospel is some of the most complex theology in the Bible, and this passage has seen countless interpretations. Yet Jesus’ words continue to bring comfort and hope. We don’t have to worry about what comes next; He has already taken care of that. What we need to focus on is how, in this life, we choose to be followers. Do we need proof, or can we accept Jesus’ words and let Him guide us?

Each of us has our own answer to that question—and sometimes it changes. Here’s what occurred to me: Jesus’ words are comforting, and if we think of them like a formula, it looks like this—God is in Jesus, Jesus is in us, therefore God is in us. What we do with that truth defines our relationship with Him.

When we act with love and do the work of discipleship, we become whole. Accepting and embracing that relationship means there is a place for us with the Creator and the Son in everlasting life. There are many dwellings in the eternal mansion—one with each of our names on it.

Maybe it’s good that we read this today, not at a funeral, because this passage isn’t just about death; it’s about life. It reminds us that we can live now with the assurance that we are dwelling with God, both now and always. That’s why our hearts need not be troubled.

Once again, Jesus tells us there is one truth—God’s truth. During the crucifixion story, Pilate asked Jesus about truth, and today Jesus reiterates: He is the truth. Are we listening for that truth today? In a world filled with competing voices that often encourage fear, are we listening for Christ’s voice alone?

And what does “the way” look like for you?

If you’re not sure, there are resources to help. One I love, also embraced by our bishops, is The Way of Love, introduced by former Presiding Bishop Michael Curry. It’s based on seven practices that help guide and nurture our faith:

  • Turn: Pause, listen, and choose to follow Jesus.

  • Learn: Reflect on scripture every day.

  • Pray: Dwell intentionally with God.

  • Worship: Gather in community to thank, praise, and dwell with God.

  • Bless: Share your faith, give, and serve unselfishly.

  • Go: Cross boundaries, listen deeply, and live like Jesus.

  • Rest: Receive God’s grace, peace, and restoration.

Yes, we will all have doubts and moments when discipleship feels difficult or impossible, but we can rest knowing that God in Christ dwells within each of us and that we are loved. And when this life is through, we will dwell in the place already prepared for us.

Let us pray:

Risen Christ, you prepare a place for us in the home of the Father of us all. Draw us more deeply into yourself—through scripture read, water splashed, bread broken, and wine poured—so that when our hearts are troubled, we may know you more completely as the way, the truth, and the life. Amen.